You say Hurricane, I say Rugby.

So remember that one time I was very mean to Sean and I blogged about it because I felt awful. Oh, you don't remember? That's good. I won't even put that post in here because we've all forgotten about it ;).

Well, in an effort to not have that happen again, Sean and I came up with words that the other person will say when the other is just about to reach the point of apologizing profusely (most likely in tears) in 15 minutes.

The word Sean will say when I look like horns are growing out of my head is HURRICANE. I chose that word because let’s face it, when I’m angry it’s pretty bad. When I say that I step out of my skin when I’m angry, I seriously mean it. Not cool at all.

The word I will say when Sean is not taking responsibility for his actions by saying “I didn’t know” is RUGBY. I think the word he chose is perfect because rugby is all about doing and not thinking, because if thinking was the case no one would play rugby.

I think this will be fabulous because Mr. Sean is really, really laid back. I mean, so laid back that when I’m going a tad bit crazy, I begin to feel like something is wrong with me. I mean, I’m growing horns and Sean is calmly sipping his coffee.

The reason that I start growing horns is because when Sean does something that completely bothers me his reply is, “I didn’t know”. And that gets him off the hook. Because how can I be mad if he didn’t know? HE DIDN’T KNOW!

So because I’m still annoyed and can’t let him get away with that simple, “I didn’t know” … I get bat poop crazy because WHY didn’t you know? And then 15 minutes later, I’m apologizing because he didn’t know that I would get all HURRICANE in this piece. You also don’t need to genuinely say sorry when you didn’t know. But when you get HURRICANE you have to.

Now, Sean will get to know when I think it’s a cop out and that he needs to say a quick and sincere apology. I’m kinda looking forward to when I get to say RUGBY because then there will be a lot less HURRICANE in our house.

Rehearsal Dinner @ Bryant Park

As most of you are aware, the wedding was cancelled. The bride did not postpone it, the venue did. Can you imagine looking forward to your wedding day for months, and then one day before the wedding your venue calls you to tell you that you won't be having your wedding. Calling to tell you that the wedding you have been planning for over a year isn't going to happen.

Yeah, I can't imagine. All I know is that my mom would not be happy to hear the words that would be coming out of my mouth. Now looking at it, it was the best decision the venue could have made because yesterday's weather in the city was plain awful. Sometimes a decision has to made that you can't make yourself.

We didn't get to do the rehearsal at the church but the rehearsal dinner was still on. It was an amazing time. It was nice to see that all of our spirits weren't down. Although our dear friends were not getting married the next day, we were still there to celebrate their union, and celebrate we did!

Here are a ton of pictures of the night.


The bride is on the far right with the polka-dot dress. Look at that smile :)





With the soon to be Mr & Mrs.



I love how happy I look in this picture


Can you see me behind Sean, being a creeper? Haha.




With my honey who won't be able to make the rescheduled wedding next weekend.


Jihae and Paul, I cannot wait to see you both get married next weekend. I am thrilled to be able to stand by your sides on the most special day of your lives. I know that if you can overcome a hurricane before you are even married there is no way that you won't be able to overcome anything together. I love you both!

Hurricane Irene Cancelled The Wedding

My friend is devastated. I was devastated for her. But she understands. Better safe than sorry.

The wedding has been rescheduled for next weekend.

We had the rehearsal dinner last night though. So I'll have pictures of that fun time.

NYC is so quiet right now, so unreal. Transportation shut down since noon today.

Mandatory evacuations in NYC, never thought I would live to see the day that a Hurricane would come to NYC.

We are home now.

Away from Irene, we hope.

Already 4 deaths reported. So very scary.

I've been trying to get a hold of my parents who live in the Bronx but I haven't gotten them yet. They say that the Bronx will be fine but I can't help but worry.

I hope everyone who may come in contact with Hurricane Irene is taking this seriously.

I don't know what else to say but God please keep us all safe.